Husband and Wife gamers, both into gaming since the 80's, looking for a steady group in the bay area. I currently DM a remote 3.5e D&D campaign that is several years old once per month or so, but we are available at all other times. Would prefer to play as opposed to GMing. We have used a lot of different systems, but would prefer something with a realism/sim-oriented system (top picks would be Runequest II/BRP, GURPS, Top Secret S/I, Riddle of Steel, etc.). However, we are somewhat open.